Monday, April 9, 2012
Baby-Weight Blues: 7 Steps for How to Avoid Them
NAH! I'm sure in 6 weeks I will get to read the next headline about how JESSICA LOST THE WEIGHT IN ONLY 3 WEEKS!
Sometimes, the media gives us a very false sense of what is normal (and an even worse idea of what is healthy). So ladies, let's just remember that for most folks, you should expect at least 6 months to lose the weight, probably longer. And sometimes, you never can quite get rid of every pound. I still haven't lost all the weight from my first, and I've given up caring about it too much. This is my body, and you know what? It grew and gave birth to two beautiful babies! So if I carry around a few extra "trophies" from that experience, then so be it.
But now is when you get to learn from my mistakes. Here are my rules for not feeling bad about your non-celebrity weight loss/body.
1 - Don't even think about exercising those first 6 weeks. You are allowed to go for walks. That is it. Your body needs to recover, and you need to sleep and get to know your baby. Those are your jobs(not to mention everything else a mom has to do anyway).
2 - Don't even think about putting on your pre-pregnancy clothes 'just to see if they will fit' for at least 2-3 months, but if you are like me...closer to 4-6. Yes, you are a lot smaller than when you were pregnant, but this will only crush your soul.
3 - Control top pantyhose with your dress clothes is a self-image-saver.
4 - Skirts are your friends, dresses(except for Maxi dresses) are not. Just trust me on this. 5 months after giving birth, I felt good and really wanted to buy a new dress. I ended up near tears in the dressing room.
5 - Get a new (yet small if money is tight) wardrobe. You don't want to go back to maternity clothes, but you can't wear your pre-pregnancy clothes, and you can only sit in sweats and pj's for so long before feeling yucky.
6 - In that new wardrobe, trade out your low-cut jeans for a higher waistline. You just gave birth. Your hips have widened, and those low cut jeans will never quite fit the same way again.
7 - Look in the mirror, and love yourself. You are a mom, and as long as you put some effort into looking nice (do your hair, dress nicely) your kids wil still think you are beautiful. You should think that too!